5 Tips to Achieving the Ultimate Orgasm

Have you had an orgasm today?  If not, what are you waiting for?  Orgasms feel absolutely amazing, not to mention all the benefits that comes with it.  Here are some tips to help you achieve the ultimate orgasm.

1.       Set the Mood and Relax—Some of the most intense and most pleasurable orgasms are achieved when the body is totally relaxed. Light a candle.  Take a warm bubble bath.  Massage the body.   Foreplay is essential for reaching the ultimate orgasm. 

2.       Locate the clitoris—Did you know the clitoris is the only body part you have whose sole purpose is to provide pleasure.  It is also four and a half inches long.  I know, shocking right?  Most people think the clitoris is this magical little button outside of the vagina, but it actually extends along the inner lips of the vulva and along the vaginal wall.  Knowing where the clitoris is located is paramount to achieving the ultimate orgasm.  The clitoris also has double the nerve endings of the head of the penis… you do the math.   

3.       Use Plenty of Lubricant—I know, I know. You think of yourself as “Aquafina” so you don’t need lube. False!  Now, I’m not trying to question anyone’s womanhood, but this is God’s plan—shout out to Drake.  Did you know that you are only fully lubricated for sex during the few days of ovulation? Adding lubrication makes sexual intercourse so much more enjoyable for all parties involved.  It also prevents microscopic tears in the vaginal wall, which can cause infections.  And who wants an infection, not I said the cat.

4.       Know Thyself –How are you going to be able to tell your partner what you like if you don’t know what you like.   Communicate with your body.  Don’t be afraid to touch yourself and give yourself that big “O”, we have hands for a reason.  Sometimes the ones we give ourselves are the best ones. Use your hands or even use a sex toy massager to explore the various parts of your body. 

5.       Try Something New—Channel your inner Samantha or Mrs. Grey and try something different.  Explore your sexuality by reading an erotic novel, watching porn or experimenting with bedroom accessories.  Using items such a sex positioning straps and sex wedges can help you have more comfortable sex, thus producing a stronger, more amazing orgasm.  Let that inner sex goddess free and you may find that she really enjoys a new type of stimulation.

For more information on any of these tips or private consultations contact Ashley-Monique, The Bedroom Belle.